Group Therapy vs. Individual Therapy: Which Is Right for You?
Most people who decide to start therapy picture one thing: a quiet room, one clinician, one client. It’s the version we see in films and the one that feels safest to imagine. So when a clinician mentions a group, the reaction is often some version of “absolutely not.”
The honest answer to “group or individual?” is rarely one or the other. In a city as large and as socially crowded as New York, plenty of people feel unseen and alone with a struggle at the same time. Understanding what each format does well makes the choice much easier.
What Individual Therapy Offers
Individual therapy is one-on-one work with a clinician, tailored entirely to you. The pace, the focus, and the treatment approach are set around your history and your goals. That matters most when the work involves something you’re not ready to say in front of other people, or when a specific protocol such as CBT, ERP, or Prolonged Exposure needs to be built step by step around your exact symptoms.
It also gives you room to move at your own speed. Early sessions can be spent just getting oriented, and nothing has to be shared before you’re ready.
What Group Therapy Offers
Group therapy brings a small number of people with related concerns together with one or two clinicians. The American Psychological Association notes that group members often find relief in realizing they are not the only ones facing a problem, and that hearing how others cope offers ideas no one clinician could supply alone.
Groups are also a live practice space. If the difficulty is in relationships, such as speaking up, tolerating conflict, or trusting people, a group lets you try new behavior with real people in a structured, supported setting.
Skills-based groups are a good example. In DBT, skills training is typically taught in a group format, covering mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness, while individual sessions help apply those skills to your own life.
How to Think About the Choice
A few questions can help:
- Is your main difficulty internal, such as intrusive thoughts, trauma memories, or low mood, or does it show up mostly in relationships?
- Do you need a highly specific treatment protocol, or a place to learn and rehearse skills?
- Would hearing from others with similar experiences feel validating, or would it feel overwhelming right now?
- What does your schedule and budget allow?
Nervousness about groups is normal and usually eases quickly. Many people who started out resistant end up describing the group as the part of treatment they valued most.
Why Many People Do Both
For many concerns the best answer is a combination. Individual therapy provides the personalized assessment and deeper work, while group therapy provides skills, perspective, and practice. Research summarized by NIMH shows that psychotherapies are effective across a wide range of conditions, and that the right fit between person, problem, and treatment is what drives results.
Starting in one format and adding the other later is also common. Nothing about the first choice is permanent.
Treatment at CBH
City Behavioral Health offers care on a continuum from one to ten hours per week, so the format can match what you need rather than the other way around. Individual therapy at CBH draws on DBT, CBT, ACT, ERP, and Prolonged Exposure depending on your concerns. Group therapy offers a structured, supportive setting for building skills alongside peers.
When more intensity is useful, therapy intensives and The Nimble Track increase frequency, and couples and family therapy brings the people closest to you into the work.
A Path Forward
You don’t have to decide this alone, or get it right on the first try. A first conversation with a clinician is a good place to talk through what each format would look like for you.
If you’d like help figuring out where to start, reach out to City Behavioral Health.
Sources:
- American Psychological Association (APA). Psychotherapy: Understanding group therapy. https://www.apa.org/topics/psychotherapy/group-therapy
- National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Psychotherapies. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/psychotherapies
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Types of Health Care Providers: Mental Health, Drugs and Alcohol. https://www.samhsa.gov/find-support/learn-about-treatment/types-of-providers






